Prayer For A Fruitful Marriage
How to Create an Abundantly Fruitful Marriage
Do you ever think about what it takes to
build a fruitful marriage?
While scrolling through I saw a page promoting aid for married couples. It encouraged a weekly check-in. You would set aside one night a week to intentionally checking in together. Making your marriage and communication within your marriage a priority.
Cool idea, right? Life gets busy and if we don’t have checks in place it’s easy to push things that should be a priority to the back of our minds. It’s really easy to be complacent and start letting go of things you should be holding onto. Have you ever struggled with that?
The Problem With “Just Winging It”
It amazes me how willing we are to spend our time, money, and resources mastering things that have no eternal significance. Things that were never meant to be the meat of our lives. We spend thousands of dollars on hobbies, education and material things.
Devote time developing friendships, pursuing entertainment and personal interest. But we just wing when it comes to marriage. We should be equipping ourselves. It takes a unique skill set to have a fruitful marriage.We feel we shouldn’t have to try and if for some reason we can’t figure it out on our own, we’ve failed.
You know, I don’t have the perfect marriage and I’m certainly not an “expert” on the matter. But I can tell you this much.
There is little reward in complacency.
Y’all, believe it or not, marriage DOES take work.
A fruitful marriage DOES require certain skills. An intimate, full, and lasting friendship requires investment in your marriage. You must become a student of your spouse. Your marriage is one of the greatest things in this life you could invest in. The truth is we give out best to the things we value most in this life. Marriage belongs on the top of that list.
1. Put God First
This is the concept: the closer the husband and wife move towards God the closer they become. When you move them down the sides of the triangle away from Christ the distance between them grows. When one is following Christ and the other is not, the distance between them is pretty grand as well.
If you want to experience marriage the way God intended, you and your husband must pursue God together;
That you both have a relationship with Him and are committed to living a life that honors Him.
If you struggle with putting God first in your marriage, here are 3 quick tips that can help you.
- Be the wife that covers her husband in prayer. Your husband may not say, feel, or know this; but He needs you to intercede for him. He needs God to walk with him as he leads you and he needs this intercession to be proactive, to come BEFORE hardship, temptation, and deception have the opportunity to sneak into his life. If you don’t know where or how to start praying for your husband, Check out this Series on Praying for your husband to get you started.
- Find a core group of women who can support you in your walk with God. This could be a woman’s group at church, a trusted friend or two, or a mentor. Having these forms of relationship in our life helps keep us encouraged, accountable, and most importantly they keep us growing in our faith and relationship with God. King Solomon hints at the importance of godly friendships in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 where he writes, Two are better than one because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, for he has no one to help him up.”
2. Learn How to Communicate
There isn’t necessarily one “right way” to communicate within a marriage. However, there are tools that can help you understand your spouse. You can then better connect with your spouse their personality type and their love language. One of my favorite books, Keep Your Love On (KYLO) which covers several topics:
- How to communicate respectfully during a conflict.
- Setting boundaries to protect your marriage
- Help when you are having a hard time effectively communicating with each other
3. Nurture Your Friendship
More often than not, it’s the friendship between a husband and wife that is wounded before the marriage is. Nurture your friendship. Be intentional about spending time together outside of marriage related tasks. Have fun! Go on dates! Make big moments small opportunities.
I’m a wife of three, and my husband is the main provider for our family. Busy is normal for us. We have had to learn over time that we can’t neglect our friendship. We HAVE to make time for each other. Even if we don’t leave the house we can create special moments at home.
Need help creating fun and special nights for the two of you at home?
4. Be a Student Of Your Spouse
Don’t ever think you know it all when it comes to your spouse. There is always something new to discover if you’re on the look out for it.
Do you know your spouses Love Language? Are you putting his Love Languages to practice, showing him love in the way(s) that he best receives it? Have you talked about the things he values? Do you take an interest in the things he enjoys? Do you know how to make him laugh? What’s the one thing he could talk about for hours every time you mentioned it without fail?
Intentionally pursuing your spouse is a great way to “affair proof” your marriage. Learn about them! Affairs often begin when someone shows interest in an area of your life that has gone unnoticed. Being a student of your spouse can help create a level of intimacy that no other person can match or replicate.
Now listen, I’m not saying that there won’t be tough days because I know there will be. But even then, in following the tips above you can create a STRONG foundation for your marriage.
- One that can endure hard times.
- Withstand the turbulence that comes with loving imperfect people in an imperfect world.
Your faithfulness will create an atmosphere where your marriage and friendship can flourish.
Foolish? No, my friend. When you take the time to honor your spouse and invest in your marriage, you build the skills necessary to keep your marriage fruitful. You show that you among the wise. You have a heart of excellence.
Today I want to challenge you. What steps are you going to take to start building a fruitful marriage relationship? I’d love to hear from you! Comment below and share your ideas!
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I’m so glad you’re here! I’m Lo Tanner. I’m an Alaska grown wife and mom of three. At my blog Mrs. Lo Tanner I help women find practical ways to keep their relationship with Christ as the foundation for their lives and relationships.
I’ve found that when we remove Christ from our relationships and daily life, that’s when things tend to get messy.
Which is why my mission is to equip women with the skills, insights, and tools necessary to be the women called us to be, within the life and marriage He’s designed and purposed for us.
10 POWERFUL PRAYERS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE
Here is the truth that most people do not to admit: marriage is hard. It is incredibly hard.
Spending forever with someone who is different from you is not quite a walk in the park. It has its ups and downs, its highs and lows. There is disagreement, then agreement. There is breaking, then making.
Marriage is incredibly hard but when handled right, it is incredibly beautiful. This is why prayers for marriage matter. Praying for your marriage is one of the most rewarding things you can do for your relationship.
If you make prayer a priority and not an option, then handling a lot of issues will be much easier.
I know first hand that prayer makes a marriage stronger. When I pray for my marriage, I gain clarity. I find peace. My faith in God is strengthened. The place of prayer humbles me. It helps me let go and let God. It helps me speak life into my marriage.
Our marriages have an enemy. The enemy who wants to steal kill and destroy wants to devour your marriage. The most powerful weapon you have is prayer.You can not fight a spiritual battle using physical tactics. It is funny how easy it is to quarrel with your spouse, rather than ‘quarrel’ with God in the place of prayer.
Or how easy it is to complain to a friend or family member rather than ‘complain’ to God. Or how it is easy to worry about issues rather than pray about them. What if we turned all the quarrels, complaints and worries into prayers?
I’ll encourage us to pray these prayers because prayers are powerful. Prayers make a difference. Pray from a place of faith, not fear. If you are single, equally pray them for your would-be marriage.
Begin by asking God to forgive you for every sin then pray passionately.
1. Father, thank you for the spouse you have blessed me with
“Whatever is good and perfect comes down to us from God our Father, who created all the lights in the heavens.” (James 1: 17, NLT)
“Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18, NLT)
2. Father, help me to be forgiving and tolerant towards my husband/wife
“Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.” (Colossians 3:13, NLT)
3. Father, teach me to love my spouse unconditionally
“Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.” (I Corinthians 13:4-7)
4. Father, may my spouse fulfill your plan for his/her life
“I knew you before I formed you in your mother’s womb.
Before you were born I set you apart
and appointed you as my prophet to the nations.” (Jeremiah 1:5, NLT)
5. May my spouse and I seek you first before any other thing
“Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.” (Matthew 6:33, NLT)
“But as for me and my family, we will serve the LORD.” (Joshua 24:15)
6. Teach us to depend on your power through every difficult moment we face together
“I also pray that you will understand the incredible greatness of God’s power for us who believe him.” (Ephesians 1:19, NLT)
7. Lord help me bridle my tongue and not say hurtful things to my spouse
“Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.” (Colossians 4;6, ESV)
8. Lord help, my spouse and I to not yield to any temptation that may come our way
“The temptations in your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will not allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so that you can endure.” (1 Corinthians 10:13, NLT)
9. Lord, separate my spouse and me from every evil company
“Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.” (1 Corinthians 15:33, ESV)
10. May your peace reign in our home
“Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:7, NLT)
Do you have any other prayers for marriage? Please share below.
Best Dua to get married fast Wedding wazifa for marriage soon
Details on powerful wazifa dua to get married soon | Wedding wazifa for immediate marriage,Quranic dua for marriage & benefits of surah juma prayer for marriage,Fauri shadi ke liye wazifa | Jald shadi ka wazifa behtareen Qurani amal.
Duas to get married soon:
Dua is one of the very powerful means for a muslim. The islamic wazifa and dua to get married, will get you quick success. It will clear hurdles present in marriage. There are many methods of doing dua to get married soon,very quickly. In this we are explaining some of the different ways of performing wazifa for immediate marriage.
Wedding wazifas for marriage:
Everyone gets excited on hearing the term marriage. And keeps many dreams with respect to his/her marriage. But when marriage keeps on delaying due to one or the other reasons people become nervous. And they start losing their hope.
In such circumstances, the Islamic wazifa,dua,prayer,amal,amulet and spells to get married quickly plays an important role .These spiritual practices speed up your marriage process. Here are the list of Islamic duas for finding somebody to get married to.
You may perform these even if you are looking for arrival of a good proposal.
Best Dua to get married quickly:
The following verse of the holy Quran if recited in the form of wazifa at a particular fixed time and place would bring you fruitful results. The method to do the best dua to get married fast | wedding wazifa for marriage is as follows:
”Hasbiyallahu laa ilaaha illaa huwa a’laihi tawakkaltu wa huwa rabbul a’rshil a’Zeem”
حَسْبِيَ اللّهُ لَا إِلَٰهَ إِلَّا هُوَ ۖ عَلَيْهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ ۖ وَهُوَ رَبُّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِيمِ
(Surah Tauba verse-129)
- Recite BISMILLAH 19 times before this.
- Read the above verse for 1100 times.
- Read DUROOD e SHAREEF 100 times
- Recite BISMILLAH 19 times at the end.
- This will make the marriage procedure quick and fast.
Rohani wazifa for getting married soon :
The full procedure for casting the powerful rohani wazifa for getting married & dua for marriage is as follows:
- At night choose a separate room for your enchantment and prepare it as it makes you feel comfortable and fully relaxed.
- Then sit as in the salah (namaz) position and close your eyes.
- Breath from your nose keeping your mouth shut for 10 minutes.
- This will make all your thoughts of the day go away.
- Then concentrate on your wish inhaling the word “ALLAH” .
- Imagine it glowing your heart.
- Do this for few days and see the brilliant results with your own eyes.
Wazifa for immediate marriage :
If someone wants to get married but is not getting any good proposals, then the person should do this powerful marriage dua for immediate marriage. The method of performing this strong & best dua to get married fast is as follows:
- Firstly make an ablution.
- Then write first 16 verses of Surah Al-Nahl with saffron and musk on a clean white paper.
- Then tie this in your neck.
- Keep this amulet in your neck for atleat 41 days.
- In sha ALLAH you will get married immediately.
Powerful Dua for getting married soon
Start this dua for getting married soon by reading Durood-e-Shareef 11 times.
- Then recite the name “ALLAH” for 313 times.
- Again read Durood-e-Shareef 11 times.
- Do this after every prayer for 41 consecutive days.
- This dua will surprise you and you will see how spiritual help comes your way.
- But you have to be clean and wearing clean clothes while performing this wazifa and be offering your prayers regularly for the desired results.
Dua for marriage by Surah juma :
Meaning of Surah Al Juma is “The Friday”. This surah contains 11 verses. This surah starts with the prasing of Almighty Allah. Then Allah. the most high mentions regarding the high status of the holy Prophet(peace be upon him) and his companions.
The Prophet teaches wisdom to people and purifies them. Later on Allah, the most high stated about jews who left the guidance that was given to them in Taurat & their jewish scholars who concealed the qualities of the beloved prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him).
Furthermore, Almighty Allah states regarding importance of the Friday’s prayer.
Benefits of Surah Juma :
- By reciting the surah Juma, our faith becomes strong.
- We gain closeness of Almighty Allah.
- This surah enlightens and purifies our heart.
- It is a means of forgiveness. With the power of this surah we can fulfill our needs, halal wishes and desires.
Surah juma wazifa for marriage :
The method to perform the surah juma wazifa for marriage success is as follows :
Surah Juma dua to get married soon
- First recite Durood-e-Shareef 11 times.
- Recite Surah Al Juma 21 times.
- Again read Durood-e-Shareef 11 times.
- Make dua for your marriage.
- Perform this for 11 consecutive days.
- In Sha Allah you will see your wedding soon.
Miracle prayer to get married soon :
Another powerful quranic wazifa & prayer to get married soon is as follows :
- The quick marriage solution is to recite surah RAHMAAN every day for 11 times in this way:
- When you reach at the word ”Fabi ayyi aalaa e rabbi kumaa tukadh-dhebaan”you should recite it repeatedly for 21 times.
- During this ritual you should stay clean and must be offering your prayers 5 times a day.
- In Sha ALLAH you will get married soon to a better partner.
Quranic wazifa for marriage soon:
The secret islamic wazifa for marriage soon is revealed in this part. If you feel that there are obstacles in your marriage. Or someone has put a curse on you, then perform this strong wazifa.The method to perform the wazifa for marriage is described below:
- Recite Surah Falaq 3000 times in the morning after Fajr prayer and 3000 times at night after Isha prayer.
- Read Durood-e-Shareef 11 times before and after.
- Do this and see what it brings to you.
- You will gain happiness of your wish coming true.
- Try this wazifa wish you a good luck.
Quranic prayer for marriage dua to get married soon:
This is a famous prayer for marriage and powerful Quranic prayer to get married soon. This prayer for marriage and has been used since centuries by Arabic scholars .This “muslim prayer for getting married quickly” should be done on every Thursday. You have to do it for at least 6 weeks in the following manner. The right time for this paticular prayer is night time after 12 O clock.
- Offer your Isha prayer.
- Recite Durood-e-Shareef 11 times.
- Recite Surah WaDDuha 101 times.
- Again read Durood-e-Shareef 11 times.
- Make supplication for marriage.
- By doing this In sha ALLAH you will find your beloved partner for marriage within 3 to 4 weeks .
Strong wazifa for getting married in 21 days:
After you complete this spiritual amal for marriage, within 21 days you will get married In sha ALLAH. This is the best practice for those who can afford for umrah. The method of wazifa for immediate marriage & dua to get married soon within 21 days is as follows:
- When the person reaches the Holy Kaaba and sees it for the first time, he should pray for his marriage.
- Send Salutations (Durood) upon the Prophet (peace be upon him).
- Recite Surah Fatiha 7 times. Surah Ikhlaas 11 times and 7 salams from the Holy Quran.
- No doubt his wish will come true very soon.
Powerful and effective dua for marriage from Quran:
The Holy Quran contains solution for all problems of life and there are some special verses which can speed up the success rate and helpful in removing hurdles in marriage. The surahs are mentioned below. The method to perform quranic dua for marriage | powerful dua to get married soon is as follows :
- Surah Fatiha.
- The Surah Yaseen.
- Surah Rahman
- The Surah Maryam.
- Surah Anfal
- And the Surah Ahad.
Recitation of these surahs in the form of a wazifa just even once daily can bring outstanding results.
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Females should not do this wazifa during their mensus/periods. Do this wazifa in the state of ablution at a clean place & do not make fun of wazeefa/dua else you will suffer.
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A marriage may be made in heaven, but the maintenance must be done on earth
Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband (Ephesiana 5:33)
The measure of a man is not how great his faith is but how great his love is.
And now these three remains: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of this is love (1 Corinthians 13:13)
Be careful that your marriage doesn't become a duel instead of a duet
Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another (Romans 14:19)
Sorrow looks back. Worry looks around. Faith looks up.
Fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God (Hebrews 12:2)
Success in marriage is more than finding the right person. It's becoming the right person.
But thou, O man of God, flee these things; and follow after righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience, meekness (1 Timothy 6:11)
A man is rich according to what he is, not according to what he has.
There is that maketh himself rich, yet hath nothing: there is that maketh himself poor, yet has great riches (Proverbs 13:7).
Life can only be understood by looking backward, but it must be lived by looking forward.
And Jesus said unto him: «No man, having put his hand to the plough, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God». (Luke 9:62)
God can heal a broken heart, but he has to have all the pieces.
My son, give me thine heart (Proverbs 23:26 a)
Learning does not begin in school; neither must it end there. Learning is a lifelong journey.
Your hands made me and formed me; give me understanding to learn your commands. (Psalm 119:73)
God humbled Himself and joined an earthly family so that one day we may join a heavenly one.
The Word became flesh and lived for a while among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth. (John 1:14)
Take hold of the hope offered to us…We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure. (Hebrews 6:18, 19)
Faith without works is dead. If our actions do not reflect our beliefs, we must examine how deeply we believe.
His faith and hisactions were working together, and his faith was made complete by what he did. (James 2:22)
Faithfulness does not require us to believe without question. Faithfulness requires us to remain committed even when we don't the answer. Lord. please help my actions reflect my commitment to love You with all my heart, soul, mind and strength.
I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to reach my destination.
Become mature…then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves (Ephesians 4:13, 14)
Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
Never bring up mistakes of the past.
If you have to criticize, do it lovingly.
If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate.
Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
Never both be angry at the same time.
Without faith, we are as stained glass windows in the dark.
Let marriage be held in honor among all…
Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
The time span of union is eternity. The Life is a jar, and in it pure wine. If we aren't together whatuse is the jar?
God did not create woman from man's head, that he should command her, nor from his feet, that she should be his slave, but rather from his side, that she should be near his heart.
Now you will feel no rain, for each of you will be shelter to the other. Now you will feel no cold, for each of you will be warmth to the other. Now you are two persons, but there is only one life before you. Go now to your dwelling place, to enter into the days of your togetherness, And may your days be good, and long together.There shall be such a oneness between you that when one weeps, the other shall taste salt.
Marriage resembles a pair of shears, so joined that they cannot be separated; often moving in opposite directions, yet always punishing anyone who comes between them.
If ever two were one, then surely we. If ever man were lov'd by wife, then thee; If ever wife was happy in a man, Compare with me ye women if you can. I prize thy love more than whole Mines of gold, Or all the riches that the East doth hold.
My love is such that Rivers cannot quench, Nor ought but love from thee, give recompense. Thy love is such I can no way repay, The heavens reward thee manifold Ipray.
Then while we live, in love let's persevere, That when we live no more, we may live ever.
To get the full value of joy you must have someone to divide it with.
…he is more myself than I am. Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same…If all else perished and he remained, I should still continue to be, and if all else remained, and we were annihilated, the universe would turn to a might stranger…He's always, always in my mind; not as a pleasure to myself, but as my own being.
and may God bless you with a long life and happy marriage.