Prayer Of A Husband Hurt Through Divorce

How To Stop Divorce With Prayers

I’mregularly asked if it’s possible to stop divorce with prayers and my answer hasalways been an emphatic yes. A fewcritical factors combined to get me to this state. That’s what I intend to showyou here.

Ihave seen cases of the divorced come back together again and several other ‘almost-divorced’cases turned around, just by targeted prayers. You can demonstrate and stopdivorce with prayers on your own or through prayer partnership. The best way tostart is to deal with the root cause of all divorces. That is, using targetedprayers to get rid of that spirit of divorce.

Ifyou read that last sentence well, you’ll see I mentioned spirit of divorce. Divorce is a manifestation of a wicked spiritthat initiates and promotes disaffection and division in marriages.

I’m sure you know there are several paths that leadto divorce in marriage. They could be anything from money, careers,friends/families, children, infidelity and many others that come under the broadname of irreconcilable differences. Each of these ‘divorce workers’ representthe activity of one evil spirit or the other. For every physical manifestation,there is a spiritual source.

Thesespirits controls the physical manifestation. But it is written, “when the enemy shall come in a flood, the Spirit of the LORD shall lift up a standard against him” (Isaiah 59:19). This means that it’s Spirit that can handlespirit. This is where prayer comes to play…and win.

How To EngageThe Power Of Targeted Prayer Over Divorce.

Tostop divorce with prayers, you must be the right prayers, or targeted prayers. An example of targeted prayer is in James5:15. It is called the prayer offaith; the only qualified prayer that would save and raise the sick.

Generally,there are two broad principal emotions, which are indeed spirit agents ofdivorce (though they may seem to you physical events or happenings). Thesespirits may have been invited, sent or passed on into any of the couple. Theirtask is to initiate and execute divorce.

1.    Utterdissatisfaction, disappointment and disaffection for the spouse. Sometimes theissues responsible for these feelings are known but, most times, they’reaccumulated and vague, nevertheless very strong emotions.

2.    Deepromantic interest in some other person. This could be a real person, onlinecontact or fantasy being.

Tostop divorce with prayers, identify the foul spirits within these two groupsand pray them out. Narrow it down to specifics by its name, e.g. spirit of sexaddiction, spirit of pornography or spirit of anger. Search for the word of Godconcerning it in the Bible, that word is your authority and prayer point.

Yousee, these foul spirits don’t want to be known, they prefer to operateanonymously or as impostors.  Once youidentify them correctly and command by God’s word, they vamoose.

Prayeris a spiritual weapon, divorce is a spiritual issue. This means that prayerwill always have its way in the spirit. Understand this and you would alwayssucceed to stop divorce with prayers. And if the battle in the spiritual iswon, the physical signs will soon fade off. 

Time To Stop Divorce With Prayers In Your Marriage.

Prayer 1

(Isaiah 8:10;  Numbers23:23;  Job 22:28)

I command everyassembly, conspiracy and counsel, designed to break my marriage, to fail andcome to nothing.

Every word, enchantment, sorcery and divination against mymarriage is hereby defeated and cannot stand. My marriage with Mr….

shallsurvive every challenge of separation, and then thrive, and flourishexceedingly. The word and the power of God are in my favor because I pray inJesus Name.

Prayer 2

(1Corinthians 7:11;  Matthew 19:6)

Lord,touch my husband to be reconciled to me, halt the spirit and process of   divorce and separation, and frustrate hismoves to marry the strange woman. Use everything and everybody to humble himand teach him to preserve our marriage. This prayer is in Jesus Name.

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Some people think that divorce can defy prayers. Others want to learn to demonstrate the power and share the testimony.Which side do you belong? Or, are you in none of the sides? What are your thoughts?

We would be blessed to share your challenges, insights and experiences.

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When Your Husband Wants a Divorce – But Won’t Leave

Your husband says he wants the marriage, but he won’t move out. Here are a few steps for wives whose husbands say they want a divorce, but don’t leave.

My first tip for wives whose husbands want to get divorced – but won’t leave the house – is to learn as much as you can about the legalities of separation.

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Landers are priceless – and so is talking to a divorce lawyer in your own city.

In my article about making a life after a divorce, a reader named Jill shared her struggle. Jill’s husband wants to divorce her, but he refuses to leave the house and kids. He wants her to leave – he has nowhere to go, no friends to stay with, and no family to rely on.

She wants to go to counseling and perhaps even save their marriage, but he refuses. Jill doesn’t know what to do – she feels stuck, anxious, isolated, and scared for her kids. Not to mention unloved, betrayed, and confused.

When did her husband stop loving her? Why? He’s not having an affair, he’s not gay, he’s not any different than the man she married 20 years ago.

If you’re in the same boat, you’re not alone.

When Your Husband Wants a Divorce – But Won’t Leave

Getting in-person advice from a divorce attorney or lawyer who specializes in mediation is crucial. Don’t rely on the internet for tips on how to deal when your husband wants a divorce. Every situation is different, and you need to get advice that is specific to you.

Talk to a divorce lawyer

Before you take any drastic steps – such as leaving your home because your husband won’t – talk to an attorney! I’m not a lawyer – my tips are creating a better, happier life. This is not legal advice.

Jill refuses to talk to a divorce lawyer, because she’s scared. Calling a lawyer makes the whole situation more “real”, and will force her to move forward. She’s not ready, even though her husband has repeatedly told her he wants a divorce and that she has to leave the house.

But, part of getting over the pain of an unexpected divorce is taking action – even when it hurts.

Take care of your physical, emotional, and spiritual health

Jill’s way to cope with her situation is not to eat. She’s not sleeping, either – and she feels exhausted, stressed, sad, and lethargic. Other wives whose husbands want to leave them may turn to food for comfort, pills to zone out, or shopping to escape. While these coping mechanisms may seem they’re helping, they’re doing a great deal of damage in the long run.

If you’re unhealthy, you can’t think clearly. If you can’t think clearly, you won’t make the best decisions for you, your children, and your finances. It’s really difficult to stay healthy when your husband wants a divorce and won’t leave the house – but it’s vital that you take care of yourself.

And, start thinking about how to let go. My most popular article has always been Letting Go of Someone You Love – Freedom From the Past.

Write down everything that happens

What date did your husband first tell you he wants a divorce, but doesn’t want to leave the house? Who have you confided in? When did you call a divorce lawyer? Have you tried marriage counseling – if so, who did you contact? How much money do you have in your joint accounts? What transactions have occurred recently?

The more details you have, the better off you’ll be. You never know when those details – even the seemingly inane ones – will make the difference between making or breaking a custody battle.

Consider making the first move

Jill has been stuck with an unhappy, unmoving husband for five months. Neither of them know what to do: he wants her to leave her home and children, and she wants to save their marriage.

She feels she’s starting to lose her mind, and thinks she’s close to a nervous breakdown. They sleep in the same bed but aren’t intimate. Her husband says he loves her one day, and denies it the next.

She feels he’s driving her crazy.

I think Jill should take her kids and leave her husband – but first she needs to talk to a divorce lawyer! Do not leave the house without talking to an attorney first. The reason I think Jill should make the first move is because her health is deteriorating and she feels she’s losing her mind.

I’m not telling you to take your kids and leave the house. If your husband wants a divorce but won’t leave your home, you need to seek professional, legal advice. But I do think that sometimes you have to make sacrifices to start rebuilding your life and moving on.

You may find Thinking About Divorce? Options for Unhappy Married Couples helpful.

Be prepared to make sacrifices

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Why should Jill leave her house? It’s not fair! HE’S the one who wants a divorce. HE’S the one who is ruining their 20-year old marriage. Why should she have to uproot her life and children, just because her husband has suddenly decided he wants the marriage?

The thing is, it’s not about what’s fair, right, or how things “should” be. It’s about knowing when enough is enough. Sometimes you have to just pick up the pieces of your shattered marriage, and move on.

You need to rebuild your life – and it won’t be as neat and clean as your husband suddenly decided that he wants to stay married, or that he should be the one to leave the house because he’s the one who wants a divorce.

Sometimes you have to take care of your future self – and that means making painful decisions right now.

Start looking ahead – because good things ARE waiting for you!

I know how bleak life seems right now. It’s awful, painful, shameful, embarrassing, and terrible that your husband wants a divorce. It’s a nightmare come true, and you didn’t do anything wrong. You don’t deserve to be treated this.

While you’re going through this, try to give yourself glimpses of a happier, brighter future. Remember that there was something wrong with your marriage or husband – otherwise he wouldn’t want a divorce. Remember that millions of women have survived divorce and are now thriving, happy, and fulfilled. Some wives don’t even realize how unhappy they were, until their husbands left.

If you’re a believer, read How to Survive a Christian Divorce.

What do you think – what would you do if your husband wanted a divorce but won’t leave your home? I welcome your experiences on dealing with divorce, but I can’t offer advice or counseling.

May God’s peace rest on you, and show you the way.

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A Husband’s Rejection Hurts!

When a husband is emotionally and physically unavailable to his wife she feels rejection, and rejection hurts! Guest blogger and biblical counselor Julie Ganschow counsels, speaks, and trains folks on heart change leading to life change. Here she helps wives discouraged by a husband’s rejection and gives helpful biblical advice. This post first appeared at Julie’s blog at BiblicalCounselingforWomen.org. 

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I am aware there is a shockingly high percentage of Christian women who are discontent in their marriages because their husband is not emotionally or physically available to them. I have several cases in which the husband refuses to be intimate or give any physical affection to his wife. They live together friends.

This kind of marriage can leave an enormous gaping hole in the life of a woman who wants a biblical marriage. It creates a great deal of discontentment within her.

She doesn’t want a divorce, she doesn’t want to commit adultery; she wants her husband to love her! Most women won’t talk to anyone about their situation because it is too embarrassing to reveal their husband doesn’t want or desire her.

Rejection Leads to Depression and Anxiety

Often, the abandoned wife struggles with feelings of depression because she cannot change her situation. She cannot force her husband to love her! Her emotions are turned inward and over time she may be diagnosed with one of several anxiety disorders or depressive disorders. What I typically find is the women overeats for comfort or under-eats for control.

What do I say to that woman who is discontent for what appears to be a very good and biblical reason? Even in such terrible circumstances as these I must apply the same biblical solutions — I must teach her to look at her own heart.

She has to be willing to admit and repent of any self-pity she indulges in. It is hard to think about being alone in a loveless marriage because her husband does not emotionally connect with her anymore.

Many women really struggle with being angry at their husband for rejecting them and their love. They are
confused and often tell me they cannot figure out what they have done or said to turn him away.

Because she cannot control her husband and make him love her again there are great feelings of hopelessness.

She is lonely and struggles with rejection, shame, and embarrassment. I have had a woman tell me when she attempted to seduce her husband he ridiculed her, laughed at her, and even told her to go put on some clothes! She was devastated. Through her tears she asked me if I knew what is wrong with her that he rejects her that way, that he is so cruel to her now.

other women in this situation, she is full of fear. She is anxious and worries about the reasons he rejects her. She’s always heard men are very sexually oriented, What is the reason he no longer desires her? Her imagination runs away concocting scenarios that are too horrible to dwell upon for long. If he is not interested in her then who is he interested in?

Biblical Solutions to Rejection

Every one of these are common feelings and reactions to being abandoned within marriage, and all must be addressed biblically in the counseling relationship. Gently and compassionately, we must help her discern what her own inner heart issues are, and teach her to see this problem through the lens of Scripture.

If you are biblically counseling a woman in such a situation, you will have to listen closely to what the counselee says to determine where her thoughts, beliefs, and desires are focused.

Is her heart focused on herself or on what God is doing in her as a result of this sad situation? You may need to challenge what she says, and always point her back towards Christ.

It is critical she understands that even this deep, deep sorrow and all of the aspects of her situation are under the sovereignty of God. As challenging as it will be, she needs to accept that she can become content in her marriage despite the sin of her husband.

Are you discontented in your marriage? Whether you face a husband’s rejection or other marital difficulty, biblical counselors at Biblical Counseling Center will listen to your heart, discern the problem, and walk with you toward God-honoring solutions. Check out our Marriage Challenge or simply contact us. God bless.

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